Finding Clarity in Chaos

 You are beautiful just the way you are

Nowadays, the world is so habitual of seeing the perfect body shapes and the perfect skin texture and complexion, a con  of social media. Everyone wishes to look beautiful and alluring. I am not saying stop using filters or stop editing your pictures, its 21st-century man, take full advantage of the facilities you are getting .But the sad and shocking part is that some of the people do it for others. They try to look nice so that society likes them, to impress the person they love, to get compliments . I am not saying that desiring a perfect body shape or fair skin is wrong , no it is not. Some people would like to have a fit and attractive body but the intention does matter. I mean I would like to have a fit and slim body so that whenever I look at myself I feel nice, so that all the clothes that I desire I can carry them nicely , so that with a fit body  I get to  live a healthy life, Not because I want myself to look alluring to others . I also apply skin products and follow the routines but not because I want a different complexion for myself so that society is more welcoming to me but because I want to take care of my skin, I want a glowing and healthy skin and its my way to maintain it.

People need to understand that though when someone compliments us or tells us that we look amazing it does feel nice but that feeling is temporary man  . Nobody gives a damn, okay, so please stop running after temporary things . What really matters is the way you feel for yourself . Stop waiting for others to make you feel special , god it's high time and if you still can't ,I feel pity that you would never be able to experience the real feeling . And please you proscriptive people just stop judging others based on their looks . A person does not get to choose how he looks but you definitely need to stop making the other person feel bad about their looks. Because you guys haven't really achieved or done something bigger , if you have near to perfect features that is because of your parents so stop taking pride in it.

People actually need to enlighten themselves with the true meaning of beauty . You think a person is beautiful if he pleasurably exalts your mind and spirit but the truth is beauty is happiness ,it is not the person's looks that give you pleasure it's his vibe and being that fills your heart with joy. Having piercings and tattoos does not tell that the person is  not 'sanskari' or unprofessional. A gentleman-looking person may not be genuine and as it is said ," A rich heart may lie under a poor coat". Everybody has their own way of representing themselves maybe they do not have enough resources or they do not  want to follow the trend it's completely their own choice of how they want themselves to look so just take your judgements and flush them away.

You need to realize that a real skin or a real body cannot be perfect and working on them for your own good is appreciated but if it is for others I highly demean it. Everyone has flaws maybe they can hide them for some time but what's the point , don't make your flaws your weakness , the scars on your body, overpower you, your blemished skin is what tells that you are real and let me tell you it is definitely something to be proud of. And yes, makeup products are there to enhance your beauty , not to make you beautiful . YOU SHOULD KNOW YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL JUST THE WAY YOU ARE AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO CHANGE A THING THE WORLD COULD CHANGE ITS HEART. I know you might have heard this song but I wanted you to recall it . So just relax and flaunt your flaws , do apply awesome filters and flood the social media , do wear makeup or accessories which makes you feel contended but always remember these things just enhance your looks , not carrying them won't make you look any less because you are beautiful the way you are . Last but not the least  SELF LOVE IS DAMN IMPORTANT AND I WANT YOU TO KNOW," KI TUM SAB BHAUKAAL HO MERI JAAN"✌

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