Finding Clarity in Chaos

                  KEE FARAK PAINDA HAI, CHILLAX 

Actually I am a bit concerned of the dejected and unhappy faces of people nowadays . Everybody has started to make such a big deal out of small things which they don't even need to bother much about. I am like KEE FARAK PAINDA HAI, THANDH PAO . See problems are everywhere but we don't have to drown ourselves into it . It's just a bad day or a bad phase not a bad life, okay . So don't make it bahut farak painda hai for things which can be dealt with kee farak painda hai. And please don't think it happens only with you, you are the only victim in this world gifted with a poor destiny.

 So this is the thing I have learnt if you have a problem just spill it out to the person you have it with, simple.  It is said that the single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has been taken place. Thousands of problems nowadays are because of miscommunications.  Sometimes it is even surprising to know like , two friends stopped talking but neither of them knows what the reason was, a boy broke up with a girl and she does not even know why. A son hates his father but has never confronted him , people are unable to share things with their guardians because they think they would be misunderstood. Only for your info -you are not getting anything out of it except stress or tension by not confronting .People are only responsible for what they say but you solely are responsible for what you understand. So stop assuming and try this crazy and awesome trick of asking. 

 And our next and common mess is overthinking . Just tell me what for, is it providing you  doraemon's 4D pocket? hold on, let me overthink this , I mean it's worth fighting for otherwise you know, kee farak painda hai or is it burning calories?if yes, then half of you are wasting your money in the gym. Actually you know what overthinking is good in a way if after thinking you actually execute rather than to procrastinate and leave it to further overthink your overthinking . So when overthinking disturbs you or worries you see this chart made by a saint Gopal das and follow the steps .

And then just cut the crap going in your mind and take a deep breadth, decide it's worth  , go Infront of the mirror and then give a big smile , teeth smile is better coz you did something which you definitely need to be proud of.

Your energy and the way you talk describes your vibe and your mental state so instead of giving a mundane reply like fine to all the how are you's , reciprocate with 'AWESOME AS ALWAYS', i like this one or you can even say 'SOMEWHERE BETWEEN BETTER AND BEST'. When you keep thinking there's a problem or when you say there's a problem you create one. Don't go after fixing your problems fix your thinking and then your problems will find tools to fix themselves . So finally yet importantly in all the hustle-bustle don't forget yourself , stop being harsh on yourself ,  because the answer is always same 'kee farak painda hai', And as i say self love is damn important kyunki TUM SAB BHAUKAL HO MERI JAAN😘✌

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