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Finding Clarity in Chaos

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Dear Gentle Listeners! You’re tuned into Manya Mingle, and let me just declare it from the start—tum sab na, bhaukaal ho, meri jaan! I feel like my audience deserves something fresh, right? So, guess what? This season, we’re keeping it fun—less gyaan, more masti! Okay ab everybody muskurayie aap manya mingle ke podcast mei hoo. So a few days back I watched 'Follow Karlo Yaar' yes yess whi Urfi wla show on Amazon Prime. Jisko every person demeans and uskie comment section ko bhardte hai fir bhi dekhte jaakr ussi ko hai.  I am proud of that girl bhyiii. She is so clear-headed, extremely self aware. And she knows what she wants and for that what she has to do ab agr kisime itni clarity hainaa to usse jalna to bnta hai duniya wlo ka. For Indian society, she is the shocking element and I am not saying ki uske jaise kro and usne kya kiya the point is ki usse pta tha ki usee kya krna hai. Not everyone has it all figured out; most of us are just testing the waters, seeing what works an...
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  Don't Control, Just Rock & Roll Have any of you got the chance to watch Puzzle? If you haven't do watch it, there was this line that literally clears so many things; this line where Robert says to Mata that Life is messy doesn't make any goddamn sense. Life's just- Random; everything's random. There's nothing we can do to control anything.  Aren't we always trying to control our lives? Be it our emotions or actions. We want everything to be what we desire, and if it doesn't happen that way, we get sad and often say ki meri zindagi toh mere hisaab se chl hi nhi rhi bhagwan.  In a world that may appear to move with precision and predetermined steps, life actually unfolds more like a spontaneous symphony, where chaos and unpredictability create the melody. Life's randomness is like a GPS that takes you on a scenic route without asking. 'Turn left,' it says, leading you straight into a cow pasture. Thanks, GPS, I always wanted to meet Daisy...
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                                                       Beyond Red and Green Lights We're all familiar with the traffic rules we learned back in primary school, right? And for those who might need a quick refresher, let me break it down for you. Red light, red light, what do you show? I say, pause till time gives us the go. Green light green light what's your command? Hurry, rush no need to withstand Yellow light yellow light what's your view? This is the moment to make your debut Okay, okay, let's hop into the 'Why on Earth did I just fiddle with those lines?' moment!  So, we often keep on waiting for that one special day or that one perfect moment to come all our lives and save things for that day to make it extra special, we keep on dreaming about that and prepare ourselves to make it a blast. I read somewhere that so many people don't wea...
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   🤗 HUG OR HANDSHAKE 🤝 What if you get one chance to go back and relive your childhood days? I mean I am totally down for it and I know most of you are too. The fact that everyone cherishes those days even though we have faded memories of them, says a lot about what sealed them as a magical time in our lives. Honestly, my early years are best remembered through the large number of photo albums and videos my family has of me, as they say, the first child benefits. Was it innocence, kindness, or empathy you had when you were young that became a magical potion?  The desire for love rather than materialistic things added magic to our lives and made those days carefree and happy. We were truly delighted by small gestures and things. I remember being so excited and content as I rushed to my mother when I received a star from my teacher. My friend would save a toffee for me and I would feel so special. Switching the buttons on and off to see the blinking light, roa...
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                                                      The Sky Is Yours Why normalize things and not abnormalize them? why everything needs to be done according to predefined steps, like in a certain way as it should be. Whose rules are we following to live our lives? Just like we didn't realize how precious our childhood was while we were living it, we aren't realizing that we have fucking one life jiska koi fixed endpoint nhi hai toh atleast you can live as you want to and as your inner voice tells you to, for a change. I read somewhere that when we were kids we used to color outside the lines, recklessly with whichever color we liked. pink skies, blue trees, orange water green camels. We didn't bother ourselves to find what the actual color is and that is so true as we grow old they tell us to use only those colors which are actually used, they ...
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                                            JUST SAY NO I have been observing and encountering for quite a while that it's actually difficult to say No. This two letter word literally gets on people's nerves but it's too hard to spill out. Don't you think? Yes, for some people it maybe a cakewalk but for others it's a sticky wicket. Though it's such a simple word, but for some reason it doesn't come easy. What comes easy, won't last long so why not take this shot. Ekdum chota packet bada dhamaka. Aur yeh dhamaka bolne ke baad nhi bolne se pehele hi ho jata hai. I am talking about the blast of thoughts which takes place in your mind to decide whether to say it or let go. It is really powerful only if one has the courage to apply it and you must know that it's your right to use it whenever you firmly oppose something. It's not an easy peasy task okay, I understand ,...
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                   KEE FARAK PAINDA HAI, CHILLAX  Actually I am a bit concerned of the dejected and unhappy faces of people nowadays . Everybody has started to make such a big deal out of small things which they don't even need to bother much about. I am like KEE FARAK PAINDA HAI, THANDH PAO . See problems are everywhere but we don't have to drown ourselves into it . It's just a bad day or a bad phase not a bad life, okay . So don't make it bahut farak painda hai for things which can be dealt with kee farak painda hai. And please don't think it happens only with you, you are the only victim in this world gifted with a poor destiny.  So this is the thing I have learnt if you have a problem just spill it out to the person you have it with, simple.    It is said that the single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has been taken place.  Thousands of problems nowadays are because of miscommunic...